The 5 Dominant Gaps
Most people have one dominant gap with a secondary pattern reinforcing it. The assessment identifies both.
Performance
You learned that being flawless equals safety. Mistakes equal rejection or proof you were never good enough to begin with.
Visibility
You learned that being visible equals being a target. When you showed up fully or spoke your truth, something bad happened.
Connection
You have learned that closeness equals pain. When you let people in or trusted or were vulnerable, you got hurt.
Control
You learned that uncertainty equals danger. When things were unpredictable or out of your control, bad things happened.
Burden
You learned that your needs equal danger. When you asked for something or took up space, something bad happened.